Finding the perfect Mother’s Day gift is hard, so to make things easier, we asked moms of the BuzzFeed Community what they’d actually like to receive. Here’s what they told us.

很难说母亲节什么礼物最完美，为了让问题变得简单点，我们咨询了BuzzFeed社区的妈妈们，问她们想要什么样的礼物。以下是她们给出的一些答案：

1. Instead of just signing your name to a store-bought card, make a card that shows how much you really care.

与其在店里买张卡片然后签个名，不如亲自制作一张来的有心。

—Julia de Castro, Facebook

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2. Even better, write her a heartfelt letter that she can reread from time to time.

更好的就是给她写封真挚的信，她日后时不时还可以拿出来看看。

—Carrie Beth Hintz, Facebook

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3. Moms deserve more than just a day, so write her a short note for each week of the year.For example, “52 Ways You Are The World’s Best Mom.”

母亲节不应该局限于一天，所以每个星期都给她写一次便笺会更好。举个例子，“你是世上最棒的麻麻52条。”

—Sonnet Fitzgerald, Facebook

桑妮·菲兹杰拉德，脸书

4. Or make her a coupon¹ book she can redeem² whenever she wants. But you have to hold up your end of the deal!

或者给她制作一些专属的优惠券，她想什么时候兑换都可以。你一定得遵守你的诺言去履行。

—Maud

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5. Time is the most precious gift you can give. Spend the day with her doing whatever she likes to do.

时间就是你能给她最珍贵的礼物。陪她一天，做她喜欢做的事情。

—Sonnet Fitzgerald, Facebook

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6. She’s cooked you plenty of meals. Return the favor by serving her a home-cooked breakfast in bed. Make sure to clean up everything afterward³; otherwise it’s no gift at all!

她经常为你做饭。现在也请你为她做一份早饭，端到她床前吧。完事之后一定要把厨房搞干净，否则这就没法称为礼物了。

—Kisa Johnson, Facebook

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7. Or treating her to a delicious brunch⁴ at her favorite restaurant.

或者你也可以带她到她最喜爱的餐馆好好搓一顿。

—Dana Murphy, Facebook

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8. Let the pampering⁵ begin by getting her a gift certificate to the salon⁶.

爱她就给她一张美容沙龙的礼品卡吧。

—Kelsey Green, Facebook

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9. Or, get her a gift card with explicit⁷ instructions that she buy something she wants and not something she needs, or wherever she likes to shop.

也可以送她一张礼物卡，写上“买你想要的而非需要的”，也就是说让她想买什么就买什么。

—Diane

戴安妮

10. If you won’t be around on Mother’s Day, call your mom and catch up — trust us, she’ll feel the love.

如果母亲节不能陪她，那就给她打个电话聊聊家常，相信我，她一样能感受到你的爱。

—Ella

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11. Flowers are fine, but an Edible⁸ Arrangement is even better.

鲜花也不错，但一个精致可口的水果花篮会更好哦。

—Alicia

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12. Buy her favorite bottle of wine, or, if you’re gunning for Child of the Year, get her a subscription⁹ to a wine of the month club.

给她买瓶她最喜欢的葡萄酒也不错，如果你还想做的更好，帮她加入一个葡萄酒俱乐部吧。

—Sara Fox, Facebook

萨拉·福克斯，脸书

13. If your mom’s an avid¹⁰ reader, there’s nothing better than a good book with a handwritten note inside.

如果你的母亲很爱看书，没什么比给她一本好书更好的啦。别忘了，里面再夹一张你手写的纸条。

—Meredith Hopkins, Facebook

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14. Having family pictures made is a great way to capture your love for mom.

多跟家里人拍些照，捕捉下你对母亲的爱。

—Dana Murphy, Facebook

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15. …or, if you already have tons of great photos, get her a digital photo frame preloaded with family pictures.

要是你已经有很多照片，那就送她一个数码相框，把家人的合影提前放进去。

—Nita

16. For a mom with younger kids, relatives can find a way to give her some “me time”.

对于带着年龄较小的孩子的母亲，周围的人应该给她一些“属于自己的时间”。

—Kim

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17. …by letting her sleep in…

让她美美地睡个安稳觉。

—Johnathan Hailey Heiden, Facebook

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18. …letting her take a long, hot bath without being interrupted by a screaming child…

让她舒舒服服地洗个热水澡，而不受熊孩子的喊叫打扰。

—Larra Harr-Lopez, Facebook

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19. …and making sure the cooking and cleaning is all taken care of.

揽下所有的家务对她也是一种照顾。

—Johnathan Hailey Heiden, Facebook

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20. Ultimately, you can’t go wrong giving her something you made yourself.

总之呢，亲自给她制作礼物肯定错不了。

—Christen

克里斯汀

21. But whatever you do, make sure that your mom feels like more than just a mom because, believe it or not, she loves you more than you’ll ever know.

不管你做什么，一定要让她感到自己不仅仅只是一位母亲，因为不管你信不信，她对你的爱要超出你的想象。

—Tiffany

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