Differences Between Positive People And Negative People

积极和消极的人之间的区别

1. “Failure is part of learning.”

“失败是学习的一部分。”

Positive people view failure as an opportunity to learn and get better. They understand that failure is an event, and doesn’t define who they are. Negative people are emotionally disabled by failure because they allow it to define who they are. They fail to understand that it’s part of the learning and growing process.

积极的人认为失败是一个学习和变得更好的机会。他们明白,失败是一个事件,不会以失败决定他们是谁。消极的人是感情失败的残疾人,因为他们允许它来决定他们是谁。他们无法理解,这是学习和成长过程的一部分。

2. “I can do hard things.”

“我可以做困难的事情。”

Positive people love to be challenged. They understand that there is no growth without struggle. Positive people embrace difficulty, and look for ways to overcome them. Negative people love the easy road. Because obstacles increase the likelihood of failure, they try to avoid them like the plague. To negative people, hard times don’t make you, they break you.

积极的人喜欢被挑战。他们明白, 没有斗争就没有增长。积极的人拥抱困难,想方设法克服它们。消极的人喜欢容易的路走。因为障碍增加失败的可能性,他们尽量避免像瘟疫一样。对于消极的人,困难时期不会成就你,他们削弱你。

3. “I still have a lot to learn.”

“我仍然还有很多东西要学。”

Positive people love to learn. They understand information evolves, and what used to work 10-years ago, might not be effective today. Negative people believe they know it all, and are less likely to welcome new information if it contradicts what they believe. They care less about what’s right, and more about who’s right.

积极的人喜欢学习。他们了解信息的发展,和今天比起来, 10年以前可能不会那么有效率。消极的人认为他们知道这一切,如果他们相信的东西与新信息相矛盾他们不太欢迎新信息。他们不太关心什么是对的,更多关于谁是对的。

4. “She is inspiring!”

“她是鼓舞人心的!”

Positive people are inspired by the success of others, they look at those who are excelling and ask themselves the question, “What can I learn from them?” Negative people become jealous and threatened by the success of others. To negative people, when others succeed it means they are failing.

积极的人受到别人的成功的鼓励,他们看到那些非常优秀的人会问自己,“我能向他们学习什么呢?“消极的人嫉妒甚至为到他人的成功感到威胁。消极的人,当别人成功,这意味着他们是失败的。

5. “What can I do better?”

“我怎么才能做得更好?”

Positive people embrace feedback. Because they are always striving to get better, they are open to learn anything that will enhance their skill set. Negative people get offended when they receive correction or feedback. Instead of seeing it as means to improve, they interpret feedback as a sign of their incompetence¹.

积极的人接受反馈。因为他们总是努力变得更好,他们愿意学习,提高他们的技能。消极的人会生气当他们收到纠正或反馈。而不是将其视为改善手段,他们解释反馈是他们无能的标志。

6. “Let’s go big!”

“我们实现大梦想!”

A positive person isn’t afraid to swing for the fences because they don’t fear striking out. A negative person not only thinks small, but they also try to convince others that their dreams and aspirations² are too big.

一个积极的人不怕打全垒,因为他们不害怕打击。一个消极的人不仅认为机会渺茫,但他们还试图说服别人,他们的梦想和抱负太大了。

7. “Have you heard about [insert name]?”

“你听说过(插入的名字)吗?”

Positive people build others up when they aren’t around. Negative people tear people down to make themselves feel good.

积极的人当别人不在的时候赞美别人。消极的人让别人流眼泪来让自己感觉良好。