2. Be Thoughtful 要体贴

The good we do tends to come back to us. When you're thoughtful to your partner, he or she's more inclined¹ to be thoughtful in return. So remember to buy each other's favourite dessert, cut out or email articles you think your partner might like, or take on the other's jobs like arranging for your partner to have a day off, with no housework or expectations.

我们的善举总是会有所回报。如果你对你的伴侣体贴照顾，他/她也会用体贴入微来回报你，所以要记得买对方最爱吃的甜点，把对方可能爱看的文章剪下来或者电邮过去，帮他/她安排一天没有家务轻松自在的假期休息下。

3. Keep Your Promises 坚守承诺

Failing to keep your word can destroy the unity² and trust in a relationship. It's better to say 'Let me think about it' than to say you'll do something but fail to deliver.

不守承诺会毁了一段感情的和睦和信任。所以最好常说“让我想一想”，而不是夸下海口却没办法实现诺言。