4、Compliment Genuinely and Compliment Unexpectedly

4、真心地赞美和出乎意料地赞美

Yes, she may look great when she is dressed up and you should definitely let her know. But, it is also important to let a woman know just how special she is to you in her day-to-day life. See her laugh, smile or dimple in her cheek and compliment her on it.

当然，如果她打扮了一番，可能看上去很漂亮，你一定要赞美她。但是，让她知道她每天对你而言有多特别也是相当重要的。看着她大笑、微笑或露出酒窝，并对她加以赞美。

5、Honesty

5、诚实

For any relationship to be successful there must be a sense of trust. Honesty is the glue that holds a relationship together and also an attractive feature. Even when it might not be the most pleasant news to tell a woman, it is better for a man to be open and honest than to tell a lie.

任何一段成功的关系都离不开信任感。诚实不仅能维持彼此间的关系，也相当具有吸引力。虽然有时把实情说出会让人不愉快，但是对男人而言，公开和诚实比说谎可要好得多。

6、Confidence

6、自信

Confidence is the key to being attractive. It will grab any woman's attention. And confidence should not be confused with arrogance¹, which involves a false sense of self. But, rather being confident involves taking stock in who you are (not what you do).

要想有吸引力，关键是要自信。自信会抓住女性的注意力。但是不要把自信和自大弄混，自大里夹杂着对自我的虚假认识。自信是相信自己（而不是你所做的事情）。