不要埋怨生活

Often heard people complain about, why not my face, why so bad weather today, why do I live in such a poor family, why God told me ... ... why should we complain about it complained that it? Life was not all the best, life was not perfect, on the contrary, the ups and downs, is the routine As the saying goes:愁愁a white head; laugh less decade. Do not complain, everyone's life will not be easy, but precisely¹ because of these twists and turns in folding wave, acquired a colorful life.

If we can often look at the issue from another angle², you might easily find themselves still very exciting life. You can not change the face, smile why do not you think about indulgence; you can not change the weather, why do not you change the mood. As the saying goes: after the storm. The same is true of life, after training can often make life wonderful.

China, a writer came to the United States, he saw a flower of the old lady is always very happy, very strange. He would pick a flower asked: "Why are you always so happy?" Replied the old lady to make the writer stand in amazement³. "Jesus was crucified is the world's darkest day, three days later to Easter. All the trouble to wait for three days as long as the right not to vanish into thin air?" Writer for the old lady answered and moved an old lady could look at this free and easy life, could see so thoroughly⁴ to life. King inventors - Edison filament⁵ do in order to find the best materials have been done a 1000 experiment many times and failed. Have a laugh at his neighbor: "Do you how to do 1000 experiments have failed many times?" Edison said: "I am not found more than 1000 kinds of inappropriate material filament so it?" Edison failed to look at from another angle, am quite sure that it can be the most suitable materials, is precisely because of this self-confidence, they are able to make unremitting efforts, finally successful.

People to love life, love life, to have self-confidence, it is necessary to make unremitting efforts towards the target, like Ai Qing said, "Even if we are a candle, wax should be dry before the torch ashes tears; even though we are a match should be at the crucial moment there is a ray of light ", if so, will the meaning of our lives, our lives will be able to issue a strange glory. Finally, I had to remind you that in the face of setbacks, do not complain about it complained that the old, and to learn how to transform the issue of perspective, so that life is not susceptible⁶ to "rain" by knockout.

常常听见有人抱怨，为什么我的容颜不是国色天香，为什么今天天气这么糟糕，为什么我生活在这么贫穷的家庭里，为什么老天爷这样对我……为什么要抱怨这抱怨那呢?生活本来就不是事事如意，生活本来就不会十全十美，相反，起起落落，悲欢离合才是家常便饭。俗话说的好：愁一愁，白了头;笑一笑，十年少。不要抱怨，每个人的人生都不会是一帆风顺的，而正是因为有这些波波折折，才练就出异彩纷呈的人生。

如果能常换个角度来看问题，你可能会很容易发现自己的人生照样很精彩。你不能改变容颜，你何不想一想放纵笑容;你不能改变天气，你何不改变心情。俗话说：风雨之后才见彩虹。人生也是如此，历经磨练往往能造就精彩的人生。

中国的一位作家来到美国，他看见一个卖花的老太太总是很高兴，很是奇怪。他就挑了一支花问：“您为什么总是如此的开心呢?”老太太的回答使作家愣住了。“耶稣被钉在十字架上是全世界最黑暗的一天，可三天后就是复活节。一切的烦恼只要等待三天不就烟消云散了吗?”作家为老太太的回答而感动，一位老太太竟能这样洒脱地看待人生，竟能把人生看得如此透彻。发明家大王——爱迪生为了寻找做灯丝的最好材料曾做了1000多次实验，并且都失败了。有一邻居嘲笑他：“你怎么做1000多次实验都失败了?”爱迪生说：“我不是发现了1000多种不合适做灯丝的材料了吗?”爱迪生能换个角度看待失败，深信一定能获得最合适的材料，正因为有这自信，所以能不懈努力，最后终于获得成功。

人要热爱生活，热爱生命，要有自信，要朝着既定目标不懈努力，要像艾青所说的那样，“即使我们是一支蜡烛，也应该蜡炬成灰泪始干;即使我们是一根火柴，也应该在关键时刻有一丝光亮”，如果能这样，那么我们的人生就会意义，我们的人生就能发出异样的光彩。最后要提醒大家，在遇到挫折的时候，不要老报怨这报怨那，而要学会变换角度思考问题，这样就不易被人生的“风雨”所击倒。