1. It sounds bad but to get a boyfriend you have to take care of the first things someone notices about you, your looks. Make sure you are taking care of yourself. Get your hair done. A couple new outfits¹, stylish² and trendy. You want to look attractive。

你听起来也许不会太高兴，但是找男朋友你必须要好好注意你给人家留下的第一印象，就是你的外貌。好好拾掇拾掇自己。把头发披下来，穿一身好看、不落伍的衣服，让自己看起来有魅力一点。

2. Men are attracted to confidence. Not only will step 1 make you feel more confident and attractive, but make a list of all of the great things you have. Read them to yourself。

男人喜欢有自信的女孩子。上面那一条可以让你看起来更自信更迷人，另外你还可以列一个清单，上面写上你的优点，读给自己听。

3. Let a guy come to you. Go out with your girlfriends, and instead of guy hunt let them come to you. In order to get a boyfriend you want to find someone who is interested in you first. Don't go out of your way to approach a bunch of guys。

让男生来追你。多和你的女性朋友一起出去，让男生来主动追你。要找男朋友，先要找到对你有兴趣的男生才行。不要自己跑去和一大堆男生玩。

4. Be optimistic. Date guys that you may not normally³ be your type or what you would go after. A great way to pick up someone who could be good boyfriend material is to find someone who shares a common interest。

要乐观。也许和你约会的那位并不是你喜欢的那一类型或是你想追的。找好男友最好的方法就是看看你们俩之间有没有什么共同爱好。