Things Charismatic People Do Differently To Stand Out

有魅力的人为脱颖而出做的不同的事情

1. They carry themselves well

他们把自己带好

Charismatic people walk into a room like they own the joint. When giving a speech or presentation, they dress well, stand up straight, and make eye contact with members of the audience. They also aren’t afraid to give a humanizing smirk¹ every once in a while, to remind everyone that they aren’t robots. Although you should never judge a book by its cover, it’s human nature to do so; charismatic people understand this, and present themselves accordingly.

有魅力的人走进一个房间就像他们拥有了结合点。演讲或作报告时,他们穿好着装,站直了,并与观众进行眼神交流。每隔一段时间他们也不怕给人性化的傻笑,提醒每个人,他们不是机器人。虽然你不应该以封面判断一本书,这是人的本性,有魅力的人明白这一点,并相应地表现。

2. They’re persuasive²

他们有说服力

Charismatic people are able to take complex, abstract ideas, and make them concrete and understandable. They also have the ability to connect seemingly unrelated ideas in order to prove a point or get a message across. Charismatic people can also take global ideas and relate them to a local audience. By using facts and emotional appeal, the most charismatic people can convince an audience of almost anything.

有魅力的人可以把复杂,抽象观念,变得具体的和可以理解的。他们也有能力把看似无关的想法联系在一起为了证明一个观点或一个消息。和魅力的人也可以联系全球创意带给当地的观众。通过使用事实和情调,富有魅力的人几乎能说服观众任何事情

3. They’re good listeners

他们是很好的听众

Not only do charismatic people know how to get a point across, but they also know when to listen to other people’s concerns. Again, they exhibit polite body language, such as eye contact, when listening to others to ensure them that their voice is being heard. They also give feedback directly related to what was said, rather than blowing the other party off and going back to their own ideas. Charismatic people succeed because they create lines of communication between all involved in a specific project or undertaking³.

有魅力的人不仅知道如何看透一个点,但他们也知道当倾听别人的问题。再次,他们表现出礼貌的肢体语言,比如眼神交流等,来确保他们的声音被听到。他们还提供直接相关的反馈内容,而不是吹离开对方的话题,回到自己的想法。有魅力的人取得成功,因为他们建立所有参与一个特定的项目或任务之间的沟通渠道。

4. They adapt easily

他们很容易适应

Charismatic people wear many different hats. They can fulfill⁴ different roles depending on what is needed at the current time. They have no problem changing their roles within a company if the need arises, as they want what’s best not only for themselves, but everyone around them as well. Charismatic people are also often prepared for contingencies⁵, so when something goes wrong, they’re usually available immediately to right the ship. Their ability to adapt to a variety of situations makes them the “go-to” person within a department or company.

有魅力的人戴很多不同的帽子。他们可以满足不同的角色取决于所需。他们在一个公司没有问题改变他们的角色如果需要,不仅因为他们对自己是最好的,而且对别人也一样。有魅力的人也经常为突发事件的做准备,所以当有错误发生时,他们通常可以立即解决。他们的能力,以适应各种各样的情况让他们成为部门或公司内的“关键人物”。

5. They’re entrepreneurial

他们是企业家

Charismatic people have great ideas, and are confident that their ideas are actually workable. They analyze⁶ problems and brainstorm⁷ ways to fix them. And they’re not just thinkers, either. Charismatic people not only come up with ideas, but come up with ways to make these ideas actionable and realistic. Since they adapt easily, they also are able to think of all possible outcomes in a given situation and plan accordingly. By analyzing⁸ problems from an objective and actionable perspective, they ensure success for all.

有魅力的人有极好的想法,并相信他们的想法是切实可行的。他们分析问题,想出办法来解决它。和他们不只是思想家。有魅力的人不仅能想出的主意,而且会想出可行的和现实的方法来实现这些想法。因为他们很容易适应,他们也能够想到所有可能的结果在一个给定的情况和相应的计划中。通过从客观分析问题、可操作的角度,他们确保能成功。

6. They embrace vulnerability

他们拥抱弱点

Charismatic people are people, no matter how superhuman they may seem. There may have been a time when they weren’t so gung-ho about giving a presentation in front of dozens (or hundreds) of colleagues, but they didn’t let their fear stop them entirely⁹. Charismatic people embrace their vulnerability and push their comfort zones to the absolute limit. In turn, their comfort zones expand, and they find it much easier to give a presentation the next time.

有魅力的人只是人而已,无论它们看起来多么超人。可能会有一段时间他们不那么雄心勃勃的在数十或数百的同事面前演讲,但他们不让恐惧阻止他们。有魅力的人接受他们的脆弱性,推动他们往舒适地带。反过来,他们的舒适区域扩大,他们下次更容易做展示。