1. Enjoy quiet and freedom

1.享受安静和自由

Just think. No more arguments and compromising. No more worries about your boyfriend. You’re absolutely free and you should definitely enjoy your freedom. While relationships are fun, everything happens for a reason and if you’re single now there may be an important reason for it. Don’t stress over your single life and don’t try desperately¹ to find a new boyfriend. Enjoy your freedom and the things you like most.

简单想一下。没有争吵和妥协。不用再担心你的男友。你是绝对自由的，你当然应该享受你的自由。尽管谈恋爱很有趣，任何事情的发生都是有原因的，如果你现在是单身，或许有重要的原因。不要强调你的单身生活，不要费尽心思去找一个新的哪有。享受你的自由以及那些你最喜欢的东西。

2. Pursue new hobbies

2.追求新的爱好

If your ex didn’t like your hobbies and interests, and you couldn’t indulge in your favorite hobby because he often laughed at you, now it’s the perfect time to do that. I’m keen on painting and I really love it, but once my ex crushed my motivation and inspiration to paint because he thought painting was a strange hobby.

如果你的前男友不喜欢你的爱好和兴趣，因为他经常嘲笑你，你不能沉浸在自己喜欢的爱好之中，现在就是享受自己爱好的最好时间。我喜欢画画，我真的喜欢，但是之前我的前男友毁掉了我绘画激情和兴趣，因为他认为绘画是一种奇怪的爱好。

I made a huge mistake when I stopped pursuing my hobby for the sake of my ex and I’m happy that I didn’t marry him. My current boyfriend loves all my paintings and we even paint together when he has free time. Never stop pursuing your favorite hobbies and developing new ones. Just because your boyfriend doesn’t like what you do, doesn’t mean you should stop doing it. Don’t let anyone control your life.

当我为了我的前男友放弃追求自己的爱好的时候，我发现自己犯了很大的错误，我很庆幸我没有嫁给他。我现在的男友喜欢我所有的绘画作品，我们甚至在他有空的时候一起绘画。永远不要停止追求自己的兴趣爱好，以及培养新的兴趣爱好。仅仅因为你的男朋友不喜欢你的爱好，你也不应该放弃自己所做的事情。不要让任何人控制你的人生。

3. Focus on your friends

3.集中注意力在你的朋友身上

Another great and fun way to enjoy your single life is to spend more time with your friends. When you are in a relationship, it’s difficult to find more time for your friends.

享受单身生活的另一个很棒有趣的方面就是花更多的时间和你的朋友相处。当你在恋爱的时候，很难抽出更多的时间与朋友相处。

Now you are single, so make sure you have a lot of fun together. Reconnect with your old friends or make new friends, if you don’t have any. My close friend didn’t have friends because her ex-boyfriend didn’t allow her to meet her friends. I couldn’t even call her and talk to her. Now that she finally and luckily broke up with him, I’m happy that we can spend some time together and have a lot of fun. But I think she is happier than me, guess why?

现在你是单身，所以要确保你和朋友有更多的乐趣。重新联系你的老友,如果你没有朋友的话，可以去结识新的朋友。我很亲近的一个朋友之前没有任何朋友，因为她的前男友不允许她去见朋友。我甚至不能给她打电话，不能和她说话。现在她终于和前男友分手了，真是庆幸，我们现在可以花更多的时间在一起，非常开心。但是我认为她比我更开心，猜猜为什么？