9. Cultivate intimate relationships. Have a good chat with a loved one. Just talk about you’re your day went to lighten up your mood. A good hug or a pat on the back from people you care about are one of the best comforts that would get you through rough days.

培育亲密关系。和你爱的人畅聊一番。 只是谈论你的一天是如何放松自己的情绪。自己关心的人给你一个温暖拥抱或拍拍你的背都是一种最好的安慰，帮你度过苦日子。

10. Give time to contemplate¹. Sometimes, you just have to think over what is eating you up. Ask yourself what is bothering you and acknowledge such thoughts or beliefs that are associated with such negative feelings. Once you have done that, you might be able to change or get rid of such unhealthy fears and thoughts. Part of coping with anxiety is understanding anxiety itself.

留出时间思考。有时，你还真的要仔细考虑到底是什么让你烦恼不安。 问问你自己是什么让你感到困扰并找出与负面情绪相关的此类想法或观念。 一旦你这样做了，或许你就能改变或摆脱这种不健康的恐惧和想法。 要解决焦虑问题就必须先知道焦虑的根源。