1. Being protective over you comes naturally

1.很自然地保护你

Some men are just decent¹ like that, but you can tell a lot about a man’s intentions by the level of care and protection he shows you. He may think you’re not interested or ready to join him in the pursuit² of dating you, so he’s going to do everything in his power to protect you in the meantime. Always keep this simple act of love in mind, as it may be the most powerful sign of male attraction out of all of them.

有些男人就是这么绅士，但是你可以通过他表现出来的关心和保护程度来得知男人的意图。他或许认为你对他追求你想要约你的这件事不感兴趣或者没做好准备，所以与此同时，他将会尽其所能来保护你。要一直将这种简单的爱的行为记在心中，因为这或许是男性吸引力中最强势的一个迹象。

2. He enjoys touching your hand, or any physical part of you, really

2.他真的喜欢触摸你的手或者身体的任何部位

I’m by no means saying sex, because if a man is having sex with you but not committing, then honey, you’re just convenient. However, if he enjoys touching your hand and briefly³ touching any suitable part of your body, then you can rest assured that he’s physically⁴ and possibly even mentally attracted to you. The best type of man feels both a strong mental and physical connection towards you.

我绝不是在说性，因为如果一个男人与你发生关系，但是却不负责任，那么前爱的，你只是很容易被得到的女人。然而，如果他喜欢触摸你的手，轻轻触摸你身体任何适合的部位，那么你可以放心，他在身体上，很可能甚至在心理上深深被你吸引了。最好的男人类型就是对你的心理和身体关联方面有很强烈的感觉。

3. Smiling becomes second-nature when he’s around you

3.他在你身边的时候，微笑成了他的第二天性

You may notice he seem happy around you. Regardless of your sex or age, it’s only natural for someone to want to spend time with you when you make them happy.

你或许发现他在你身边看起来很开心。不管你的性或者年龄，当你让他们开心的时候，人们很自然地就会想和你花时间在一起。

Keep in mind the reasons why he’s smiling. If you’re telling really funny jokes then he’s going to laugh. But try telling an extremely dorky joke that’s not even that funny. It’s a true indication of attraction when laughing at a non-funny joke becomes a thing.

记住他微笑的原因。如果你真的是在讲滑稽的笑话，那么他会大笑。但可以试着讲一个特别愚蠢但是一点也不好笑的笑话。当他听到不好笑的笑话也大笑的时候，那么这就是吸引力的一个真正迹象了。