Being romantic might be difficult in your everyday life, but on vacation it can be much easier. A getaway is just what you need to become fluent in the language of love.

日常生活中时时做到浪漫可能有困难，但是假期浪漫一点则轻松的多。开溜一段时间正是表达爱的语言所需要的。

Step 1 Plan out the trip together

1.共同计划旅程

Plan the trip together and include activities that you'll both love. This should be about strengthening the connection between you and your partner, and anticipating¹ the trip together will bring you closer.

共同计划这次旅程，安排两人都喜欢的活动。这样可以增强你和伴侣之间的联系，共同期待这次旅程会让两人更加亲密。

Step 2 Stay in your room

2.待在室内

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Spend some quality time in your room. Order room service and spend the whole day "getting to know each other." Turn off the cellphones, televisions, and other distractions².

在房间内度过一些有品质的时间。预订房间服务，花一整天的时间来“互相了解”。关闭手机，电视机和其他干扰源。

Step 3 Get your heart pumping

3.充满活力

Do something active together, whether it's playing tennis, hiking, or going for a long walk or bike ride. Engaging in physical activity is a fun way to bond³ and to get your heart pumping.

一起做一些积极活跃的事情，无论是打网球，徒步旅行，散步还是骑自行车。一起进行体育活动是增强联系，增加活力的有趣的方式。

Step 4 Don't hold back

4.不要抑制

Use the change of scenery and the downtime to tell your partner the romantic things they don't get to hear often enough.

利用环境的改变和难得的休闲对你的伴侣说出对方不经常听到的浪漫的语言。

Step 5 Splurge

5.奢侈一点

Splurge on something that you don't normally⁴ get to have together. Go for a romantic dinner or schedule a couples massage⁵.You're already on vacation; you might as well do it all!

多花点钱享受一下你们不经常享用的东西。共享浪漫晚餐，或者安排夫妻按摩。你们已经在度假了，大家都可以做到。

According to a 2010 poll by _Travel and Leisure_ magazine, Honolulu is the best American city for a romantic escape.

根据2010年旅游和娱乐杂志的民意调查，檀香山是进行浪漫旅程最好的美国城市。