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什么让你内心很强大
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  • What makes you emotionally strong? Don't you miss companionship? Don't you fear loneliness?

    什么能让你情感上变坚强?你不想念有人陪伴的日子吗?你不害怕孤单吗?

    I would be lying if I say I don't need companionship. Feels nice to have someone to talk to, to cuddle with, to spend the rest of your life with...

    如果我说不需要别人陪那是假的。有人说说话、拥抱一下,有人共度余生的感觉也不错。

    Reality - With companionship comes responsibilities, commitment, adjustments, compromises, new relatives, obligations, expectations. These things have started to overwhelm me.

    现实是——陪伴也伴随着责任、承诺、磨合、妥协、新的亲戚、义务、期待。这些东西已经开始压垮我了。

    When I think about the freedom I have being single and see the kind of life a committed / married individual is living, I feel content.

    当我想到单身时的自由,再看看恋爱中人或已婚人士所过的那种生活时,我感觉很满足。

    It takes time to become emotionally strong and is a never ending process. I used to fear loneliness until I started enjoying my own company. I've become so comfortable with myself that at times (when my emotional strength is at its peak) I just can't see myself in a relationship.

    情感上变坚强需要时间,而且永无止境。我过去害怕孤单,直到后来我开始享受自己的陪伴。我自己生活得如此惬意以至于有时候(我自己精神上最坚强的时候)我都无法想象恋爱了会是什么样。

    P.S. - It's not an easy journey to reach this stage.

    备注:想要达到这种境界很难。

    So I have always been a misfit. I don’t remember a single day in school that I was not made fun of. Same goes for college.

    我总是不合群,我不记得在学校有哪天不被嘲笑,上了大学也一样。

    I later realized that its human nature to acquire joy of someone else’s misery1. I also realized that a person spends no more than 60 seconds thinking about another person a day. I realized that it is preposterous2 to retool3 my personality for 60 seconds of someone’s approval.

    后来我发现把快乐建立在别人的痛苦之上是人性使然。我也意识到一个人每天只有不到60秒钟的时间是在想别人的事,我发现为了别人60秒的赞同就重塑自己的性格很可笑。

    So I checked out completely. Could not be happier since then.

    我完全弄明白了,从那以后过得再幸福不过了。

    Now no one dares to make fun of me, if they try, I just bring out their deepest insecurities and make them feel like crap. I have incorporated the true nature of society into every molecule4 of my being. That is why I am emotionally stronger. As for the constant mild anger, that is just my normal disposition5.

    现在没人敢取笑我了,如果有人试图这样做,那我就会说出让他们最没有安全感的事让他们感觉自己就是个废物。我把社会的真正本质融入了我自身的每一方面,这就是我情感上变强大的原因。至于愠怒,那只是我正常的性格。

     9级    美文 
     单词标签: misery  preposterous  retool  molecule  disposition 


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    1 misery [ˈmɪzəri] G10yi   第7级
    n.痛苦,苦恼,苦难;悲惨的境遇,贫苦
    参考例句:
    • Business depression usually causes misery among the working class. 商业不景气常使工薪阶层受苦。
    • He has rescued me from the mire of misery. 他把我从苦海里救了出来。
    2 preposterous [prɪˈpɒstərəs] e1Tz2   第10级
    adj.荒谬的,可笑的
    参考例句:
    • The whole idea was preposterous. 整个想法都荒唐透顶。
    • It would be preposterous to shovel coal with a teaspoon. 用茶匙铲煤是荒谬的。
    3 retool [ˌri:ˈtu:l] VW6xI   第12级
    vt. 重组;重新装备 vi. 更换工具;重新装备;更换机械设备
    参考例句:
    • Each time the product changes, the machines have to be retooled. 每次更换产品,就得重新装备机器。
    • In the computer industry, engineers have to retool frequently. 在电脑业中,工程师必须经常以新知识充实装备自己。
    4 molecule [ˈmɒlɪkju:l] Y6Tzn   第7级
    n.分子,克分子
    参考例句:
    • A molecule of water is made up of two atoms of hygrogen and one atom of oxygen. 一个水分子是由两个氧原子和一个氢原子组成的。
    • This gives us the structural formula of the molecule. 这种方式给出了分子的结构式。
    5 disposition [ˌdɪspəˈzɪʃn] GljzO   第7级
    n.性情,性格;意向,倾向;排列,部署
    参考例句:
    • He has made a good disposition of his property. 他已对财产作了妥善处理。
    • He has a cheerful disposition. 他性情开朗。

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