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  • Sure, you might think that if you were truly in love with someone, you wouldn't be able to have feelings for someone else. But sometimes this can actually happen - and it can be emotionally draining, as your heart gets pulled in two directions.


    Though, it is worth noting the difference between lust1 and love, as lust might represent more physical, sexual chemistry with a partner, and it's likely to be a more immediate2, short-term affair. (Here's a guide to knowing if your love is real.)


    1. Slow Down

    1. 别着急

    "The feeling of being in love makes everything seem to feel urgent, quick-moving, and amplified3. But if you're going to have to make a super tough decision here, and perhaps say goodbye to someone you feel you love - for their sake and yours, and to help ensure you make a wise decision - you really need to slow things down," he says.


    It's time to pump the brakes and try and take control over the overwhelming, intoxicating4 emotion you feel. Additionally, the act of trying to slow things down with the people you love will have some perks5: it'll help you parse6 out any residual7 confusion you may be experiencing between the emotions of lust and love, he explains.


    2. Pick One

    2. 选一个

    Sure, this might be tough, as you'll want to spend as much time with these two people as possible, but you can't keep both around. Sad but true - you can't have it all, here (unless that's something you all agree upon!).


    "Without a doubt, maintaining a true, loving relationship requires a heavy investment of time, heart, money, and attention, and these things are finite. And even if the people you love right now are happy with you, do realize that relationships are not frozen in stone, and they may need 'more' from you in the future," he says. So, even if it's fine being with two people right now, that can easily change.


    And, it's almost impossible to be open with both of the people you're in love with about your polyamorous feelings, so even if one of your SOs says they're "cool" with you being in love with other people at the same time, the odds8 are that jealousy9 will appear in the relationship.


     10级    美文 
     单词标签: lust  immediate  amplified  intoxicating  perks  parse  residual  odds  jealousy 


    1 lust [lʌst] N8rz1   第10级
    • He was filled with lust for power. 他内心充满了对权力的渴望。
    • Sensing the explorer's lust for gold, the chief wisely presented gold ornaments as gifts. 酋长觉察出探险者们垂涎黄金的欲念, 就聪明地把金饰品作为礼物赠送给他们。
    2 immediate [ɪˈmi:diət] aapxh   第7级
    • His immediate neighbours felt it their duty to call. 他的近邻认为他们有责任去拜访。
    • We declared ourselves for the immediate convocation of the meeting. 我们主张立即召开这个会议。
    3 amplified ['æmplɪfaɪ] d305c65f3ed83c07379c830f9ade119d   第7级
    放大,扩大( amplify的过去式和过去分词 ); 增强; 详述
    • He amplified on his remarks with drawings and figures. 他用图表详细地解释了他的话。
    • He amplified the whole course of the incident. 他详述了事件的全过程。
    4 intoxicating [in'tɔksikeitiŋ] sqHzLB   第8级
    a. 醉人的,使人兴奋的
    • Power can be intoxicating. 权力能让人得意忘形。
    • On summer evenings the flowers gave forth an almost intoxicating scent. 夏日的傍晚,鲜花散发出醉人的芳香。
    5 perks [pɜ:ks] 6e5f1a81b34c045ce1dd0ea94a32e614   第9级
    额外津贴,附带福利,外快( perk的名词复数 )
    • Perks offered by the firm include a car and free health insurance. 公司给予的额外待遇包括一辆汽车和免费健康保险。
    • Are there any perks that go with your job? 你的工作有什么津贴吗?
    6 parse [pɑ:z] 9LHxp   第11级
    • I simply couldn't parse what you just said. 我完全无法对你刚说的话作语法分析。
    • It causes the parser to parse an NP. 它调用分析程序分析一个名词短语。
    7 residual [rɪˈzɪdjuəl] SWcxl   第9级
    • There are still a few residual problems with the computer program. 电脑程序还有一些残留问题。
    • The resulting residual chromatism is known as secondary spectrum. 所得到的剩余色差叫做二次光谱。
    8 odds [ɒdz] n5czT   第7级
    • The odds are 5 to 1 that she will win. 她获胜的机会是五比一。
    • Do you know the odds of winning the lottery once? 你知道赢得一次彩票的几率多大吗?
    9 jealousy [ˈdʒeləsi] WaRz6   第7级
    • Some women have a disposition to jealousy. 有些女人生性爱妒忌。
    • I can't support your jealousy any longer. 我再也无法忍受你的嫉妒了。

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