Do what you can to keep your self-confidence high

尽可能地自信

Most will tell you to stay healthy and fit, but there are men out there who enjoy women with full figures. Weight really has nothing to do with getting a boyfriend. However, you must always try and look your best. Not only will you feel great, but you will exude¹ confidence. Men love a confident woman who is comfortable in her own skin.

大多数人说保持健康苗条就行，但事实上喜欢丰满身材的男性大有人在。体重与找一个男朋友真的没有多大关系。但是，你需要尽可能的呈现出自己最美的一面。这样不仅能让你自我感觉良好，而且还会散发出自信的魅力。男人喜欢爱自己的自信女人。

Whether you are a size zero or a size 20W, you need to love yourself. We are born as imperfect creatures so don't hold yourself to anyone's standards but your own. Everyone else can go to blazes.

无论你穿的是0号还是20W号的衣服，你都需要爱自己。我们生来就是不完美的，所以不要按照别人的标准去生活，自己尽兴就好。其他人都见鬼去吧。

Tell negativity to take a hike

不要表现出消极情绪

Life can get all of us down at times and many of us suffer from depression. While we can't help having it sometimes, men do take notice if we are constantly negative.

生活总会让我们不时吃瘪，很多人都会因此郁郁寡欢。虽然我们无法控制这些磕磕碰碰，但如果我们总表现出消极情绪，男人是会注意到的。

Obviously, you can't turn depression on and off like a light switch. However, do your best to look at the positive things in your life and keep an optimistic outlook. If you feel you're in a rut, start going out of your comfort zone and try new things that you wouldn't have even dreamed of before. The world is your oyster³ and you should do what makes you feel happy.

显然，你无法像控制开关那样控制抑郁。但是，请尽可能地看到生活的积极面，保持乐观。如果你感觉自己陷入困境，那就走出自己的舒适区，尝试你未曾想过的新鲜事物。你可以随心所欲，做一些让自己开心的事情。

If there's anything a man finds infectious, it's a lady who is enjoying herself in any element she puts herself in.

男人觉得什么样的女人最有感染力？当然是无论身处何种情况都能享受自我的女人！

Have your own life

有自己的生活

This is an absolute need if you want to find a boyfriend. While men love it when we lavish⁴ attention upon them, they also like their space. So do your own thing. Don't be afraid to have other plans with your friends or do things for yourself solo.

如果你想找到一个男朋友，这是必要条件。虽然男人喜欢我们将注意力花在他身上，但他也喜欢拥有自己的空间。所以，做自己的事！如果和朋友有约或想一个人做些事时，不要担心。

Rather than making a potential boyfriend the sole focus of your life, keep separate interests and activities so that you're not always available for him. This will, in turn, keep him interested as he sees that you are more valuable than the tart² at the bar who keeps hounding him.

不要让潜在的男朋友成为你生活的唯一焦点，你也要有自己的兴趣和活动，因为你不会无时无刻陪在他的身边。反过来，这会让他对你更有兴趣，因为他觉得你比酒吧里那些围着他转的小妖精更珍贵。