If anything, readers might want more of Mr Cave's crisp conversational prose.
Use humor, personal stories and conversational language – that way you won't easily forget what to say.
But don't worry, says Elizabeth Bernstein, a relationship columnist at The Wall Street Journal, you can learn to develop your conversational intelligence.
Benjamin Disraeli (1804 - 1881) Talking with you is sort of the conversational equivalent of an out of body experience.
Chen Zhimin, dean of the School of International Relations and Public Affairs at Fudan University in Shanghai, said it helps that Peng exudes an easy grace, a sincerity toward charities and has a confident grasp of conversational English.