There are a number of ways to do this:

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A girl isn't going to kiss you without getting to know you first. Therefore, you must build a sufficient amount of rapport¹ and comfort before a girl will even think about touching² you, let alone kissing you! You need to tell stories, flirt³, touch, and ultimately get her sexually attracted to you before you can even think about going in for the kiss.

在女孩子了解你之前，她是不会亲你的。因此，想要女孩子触碰你，甚至亲吻你，你就要给她足够多的亲切感和舒适感。你可以给她讲讲故事，调调情，碰碰小手，直到对方被你吸引，这时你才能想想接吻这样的举动。

One of the best ways to build comfort is, as I said, touch! Touching is an extremely intimate and fun way to get a girl interested in you. If a girl is comfortable with your touch, she's well on her way to get comfortable with the idea of you kissing her.

建立舒适感的一个好方法就是触碰。要想让女孩子对你感兴趣，触碰是一种非常亲密而且有趣的方式。如果女孩子对你的触碰感到自在的话，她也会逐渐对你想要亲吻她的想法感到自在。