A person, like a commodity, needs packaging. But going too far is absolutely undesirable1. A little exaggeration, however, does no harm when it shows the person's unique qualities to their advantage. To display personal charm in a casual and natural way, it is important for one to have a clear knowledge of oneself. A master packager knows how to integrate art and nature without any traces of embellishment, so that the person so packaged is no commodity but a human being, lively and lovely.
A young person, especially a female, radiant with beauty and full of life, has all the favor granted by God. Any attempt to make up would be self-defeating. Youth, however, comes and goes in a moment of doze2. Packaging for the middle-aged3 is primarily to conceal4 the furrows5 ploughed by time. If you still enjoy life's exuberance6 enough to retain self-confidence and pursue pioneering work, you are unique in your natural qualities, and your charm and grace will remain. Elderly people are beautiful if their river of life has been, through plains, mountains and jungles, running its course as it should. You have really lived your life which now arrives at a complacent7 stage of serenity8 indifferent to fame or wealth. There is no need to resort to hair-dyeing-the snow-capped mountain is itself a beautiful scene of fairyland. Let your looks change from young to old synchronizing9 with the natural aging process so as to keep in harmony with nature, for harmony itself is beauty, while the other way around will only end in unpleasantness. To be in the elder's company is like reading a thick book of de luxe edition that fascinates one so much as to be reluctant to part with.
As long as one finds where one stands, one knows how to package oneself, just as a commodity establishes its brand by the right packaging.
人如商品要包装,但切忌过分包装。夸张包装,要善于展示个性的独特品质。在随意与自然中表现人的个性美,重要的是认识自己,包装的高手在于不留痕迹,外在的一切应与自身浑然一体,这时你不再是商品,而是活生生的人。
青年有着充盈的生命的底气,她亮丽诱人,这是上帝赐予的神采,任何涂抹都是多余的败笔,青春是个打个盹就过去的东西。中年的包装主要是修复岁月的磨损,如果中年的生命依然有开拓丰满与自信,便会成年人,如果你生命的河流正常地流过,流过了平原高山和丛林,那么你是美的。你的美充满了安详与淡泊,因为你真正地生活过。老年人不要去染发,老人的白发像高山的积雪,有种仙境之美。人该年轻时就年轻,该年老时就年老,这是与自然同步,这就是和谐。和谐就是美,反之就是丑。和老年人在一起就像读一本厚厚的精装书,魅力无穷,令人爱不释手。
一个人只要知道自己所处的位置,他就会知道如何包装自己。就如商品一样,品牌的树立靠的是正确的包装。
1 undesirable [ˌʌndɪˈzaɪərəbl] 第8级 | |
adj.不受欢迎的,不良的,不合意的,讨厌的;n.不受欢迎的人,不良分子 | |
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2 doze [dəʊz] 第8级 | |
vi. 打瞌睡;假寐 vt. 打瞌睡度过 n. 瞌睡 | |
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3 middle-aged ['mɪdl eɪdʒd] 第8级 | |
adj.中年的 | |
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4 conceal [kənˈsi:l] 第7级 | |
vt.隐藏,隐瞒,隐蔽 | |
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5 furrows [ˈfɜ:rəʊz] 第9级 | |
n.犁沟( furrow的名词复数 );(脸上的)皱纹v.犁田,开沟( furrow的第三人称单数 ) | |
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6 exuberance [ɪɡ'zju:bərəns] 第9级 | |
n.丰富;繁荣 | |
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7 complacent [kəmˈpleɪsnt] 第9级 | |
adj.自满的;自鸣得意的 | |
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8 serenity [sə'renətɪ] 第8级 | |
n.宁静,沉着,晴朗 | |
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9 synchronizing ['sɪŋkrənaɪzɪŋ] 第9级 | |
v.同步,整步adj.同步的 | |
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