1、寻寻觅觅

True love does not come by finding the perfect person ,but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly¹

获得真爱不是靠寻觅完美之人，而是学会把不完美之人看得完美

—— Jason Jordan 乔丹

It is possible to learn more of a human being in one minute of love than in months of observation

要了解一个人，相恋一分钟可能胜过观察几个月

——Roman Rolland 罗曼•罗兰

Love is always present ;it is just a matter of feeling it or not

爱情无时不有，无处不在，问题在于你能否感觉到

——Kimberly Kirberger 基贝格尔

Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved

决不让悬而未决的问题阻挡我们去爱应爱之人

——Barbara Johnson 约翰逊

The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread

对爱的渴望要比对面包的渴望更难消除

——Mother Teresa 特蕾莎修女

Love is the flower of life ,and blossoms unexpectedly and without law ,and must be plucked where it is found ,and enjoyed for the brief hour of its duration

爱情是生命的花朵，花儿绽放出人意料，没有规律。哪里见到哪里采摘，赏花就在花开时

——D. H. Lawrence 劳伦斯

If it is your time ,love will track you down like a missile

如果轮到你了，爱情会像巡航导弹一样找到你

——Lynda Barry 巴里

Love may be blind ,but it can sure find its way around in the dark !

爱情也许是盲目的，但是在黑暗中它会找到路

Love is not finding someone to live with .It’s finding someone you can’t live without

爱情不是找一个人一块生活，而是寻找那个生活中离不开的人。

——Rafael Ortiz 奥尔蒂斯

Let the first impulse pass ,wait for the second

不要理会第一次感情冲动，等待第二次吧。

——Baltasar Gracian 格拉西安

True love is like ghosts ,which everybody talks about and few have seen

真正的爱情犹如幽灵，人人都说过，但几乎没谁见过

——Francois de la Rochefoucauld 罗什富科

Love ,while you are able to love

趁着能爱，尽快去爱

——A. Frieligrath 弗里雷格拉夫

What then in love can women do ?If we grow fond they shun² us ,And when we fly them ,they pursue ;but leave us when they’ve won us

恋爱中的女人会怎么做呢？我们有了爱意，她们就遁而避之。我们避而远之，她们又紧追不舍，可是追到手又离我们而去。

——John Gay 盖伊

It is at the edge of a petal³ that love waits

爱情等在花瓣的边缘

——William Carlos Williams 威廉斯

Love sought is good ,but given unsought is better

追求得到的爱情固然美好，但不经追求而得到的爱情更为美好。

——William Shakespeare 莎士比亚

Don’t try so hard ,the best things come when you least expect them to

不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one ,so that when we finally meet the person ,we will know how to be grateful

在遇到意中人之前，上帝也许会安排我们先遇到几个不合适的人；在我们终于遇见心仪之人时，便知道如何心存感激。

We love those who admire us ,but not those whom we admire

我们爱爱慕我们之人，而不是爱我们爱慕之人。

——Francois De La Rochefoucauld 罗什富科

Perfect love is rare indeed ---for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety⁴ of the very wise ,the flexibility⁵ of the child ,the sensitivity of the artist ,the understanding of the philosopher ,the acceptance of the saint ,the tolerance⁶ of the scholar and the fortitude⁷ of the certain

完美的爱的确不常见，因为要做一个爱人你就要具备智者的敏锐、少儿的灵活、艺术家的敏感、哲人的体谅、圣人的大度、学者的宽容和坚定者的刚毅。

——Leo Buscaglia 布斯卡格利亚

Remember that you don’t choose love ,Love chooses you

记住不是你选择爱情，而是爱情选择你

If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him or her ,feel honored that love came and called at your dooe ,but gently refuse the gift you cannot return

一旦发现有人爱上了你，而你却不能报之以爱，你应为爱情前来叩门而感到荣幸，但是你要和蔼地拒绝这份你无法回报的礼物。

——Kent Nerburn 内伯恩

Love the heart that hurts you ,but never hurt the heart that loves you

Vipin Sharma

爱伤你之心，勿伤爱你之心

——Vipin Sharma沙马