3．坎坷情路

For one human being to love another :that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks ;the ultimate ,the last test and proof ,the work for which all other work is but preparation

让一个人支爱另一个人，这或许是我们最艰巨的任务，是最终和最后的考验和证明。其它的一切只不过是前奏而已

-----Rainer Maria Rilke 里尔克

The pain of love is the pain of being alive .It is a perpetual¹ wound

爱的育苦即活着的痛苦，它是永恒的伤痛

-----Maureen Duffy 达菲

You can’t buy love ,but you can pay heavily for it

你不能习到爱情，但你可以为之付出高昂的代价

-----Henny Youngman 扬曼

Of all pains ,the greatest pain is to love ,and love in vain

苦中之苦，莫过于爱而无果

-----George Granville 格兰维尔

We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love ,never so forlornly unhappy as when we have lost our love lbject or its love

我们从不像恋爱时那样对痛苦毫不设防，也从不像失恋时那样凄凉悲惨

-----Sigmund Freud 弗洛伊德

Love opens your chest and opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up.

爱扒开你的胸膛，掏出你的心脏，有人就乘机侵入你的心胸把你搞得一团糟。