We have always wondered how it would be to have a partner who is sensationally¹ good looking with a drop down attractive personality, tall and charismatic in nature and of-course, how to make him desire you. In this article, we have gathered some underrated characteristics that are essentially² more valuable than the cliched,

我们应该都幻想过如果自己的另一半颜值高、性格好、自带迷人气质会是怎么样，当然也一定想过如何才能让他们喜欢上你。这篇文章抛开了以前的陈词滥调，为你整理了最佳男友应具有的特点，它们的重要程度远超过你的想象。

Sharing is not just caring Sharing is Attractive

分享并不只是关心，它非常吸引人

They'll let you take bites of their meals at restaurants and home because food tastes so much better when the person you love can enjoy it as well.

懂得分享的男人不管在饭店还是家里都会让你品尝他的食物，因为和爱的人一起分享，食物也会变得更美味。

Willingness to watch shows and Movies you love

原意看你喜欢的节目或电影

Maybe he's not a huge fan of Gossip Girl or Grey's Anatomy³, but he'll sit with you for an episode or two if you're in charge of the TV remote.

也许他并不爱追《绯闻少女》或《实习医生格雷》，但如果你拿着遥控器，他愿意和你坐在一起看上一两集。

Share the same kind of humor

幽默感一致

This is very important! People are more attractive when they are laugihng. If you're very sarcastic⁴, your man must understand your sarcasm⁵.

这个十分重要！大笑时人是最有魅力的。如果你爱开讽刺玩笑，他必须能懂你的幽默。

If you're into slapstick humor, it's important to be with a person who appreciates silliness as well. That way, you can enjoy the same jokes, movies and shows.

如果你爱打闹，找到一个能理解你傻气的人非常重要。只有这样，你们才能欣赏一样的笑话，电影和电视剧。

Being Cool as a Cucumber

冷静沉着

Calm men and women, who don't react to obstacles by punching walls or swear, have a good hold on their temper and are unlikely to lash⁶ out at you when trouble strikes.

冷静人在遇到困难时不会捶胸顿足或破口大骂，他们能很好地控制自己的脾气，当问题来临时，他不会冲你大吼大叫。

Good with children

喜欢孩子

Whether you want to be a parent someday or not, a person who interacts well with children is considered much more attractive and likely has a decent amount of patience and understanding.

不管你将来是否想要孩子，和孩子处得来的人一般都更有魅力，并且也会有耐心，更理解别人。

Not getting grossed out by girl problems talk

不会在那几天被你的唠叨惹毛

If it's that time of month and you're in pain, your man won't freak out or shame you for spewing "TMI". He is an adult and even wants to comfort you through these annoying days.

如果到了每个月的那几天，你痛的不得了，他不会被吓到，也不会怪你"一直抱怨"。他是个成年人，甚至应该愿意在这时候安慰你。

Resourcefulness

足智多谋

You might call them "handyman". The one that when push comes to shove, is incredibly resourceful and DIY. It's good to be with someone who is always looking for a solution and not simply giving up on a task.

你可以叫他"多面手"。在危机关头不乱阵脚、足智多谋并且可以自己动手解决。和面对任务不轻易放弃，一直寻找解决方案的人在一起的感觉很好。

Telling you that you look Mesmerizing⁷

告诉你你很美

Beauty is not important but we still want to hear that we are beautiful every once in a while. we all want to feel attractive.

虽然美并没那么重要，但我们仍愿意听到别人时而赞美自己。谁都愿意变得更有魅力。