"You just kissed a girl at midnight. Whatever."

"只不过在午夜时分亲了另一个姑娘，无所谓啦。"

"I forgave him after I found out about the first time he cheated on me. He was drunk at a New Year's Eve party, and he told me he kissed another girl. So I [said], 'It's not a big deal. You just kissed a girl at midnight. Whatever.'"

"他第一次出轨的时候，我原谅了。当时是新年前夜，他在派对上喝醉了，然后告诉我他亲了另一个姑娘。所以我说，'没什么大不了，不过是在午夜时分亲了另一个姑娘，没关系啦。'"

"He worked his butt¹ off to be a better person in general."

"总的来说，他工作拼命、也很优秀。"

"He worked his butt off to be a better person in general. It wasn't just for me - it was for him and his future, which I think made the biggest difference. We worked intensely on our communication. Six years later, we are 1,000 times happier than we were before he cheated. It brought us closer."

"总的来说，他工作拼命、也很优秀。不仅是为了我--也是为了他自己、以及他的未来，我认为这才是最重要的。我们做了很多沟通方面的工作。6年后，我们比他出轨前的状态要幸福1000倍。出轨让我们变得更亲密。"

"He wanted better for us and vowed² to change."

"他希望我们有更好的将来，发誓会做出改变。"

"It's been over four years since the cheating, and what I think really made it work was [him seeing the apartment I got in a dangerous neighborhood] … it really hit him hard that this was where we were. He said he did not want his girlfriend and son living in this apartment.

"自出轨事发后，已经四年了。当他真正意识到我居住的公寓位于一个危险的街区时，我想我原谅了他。意识到这一处境对他打击颇深。他说他不希望自己的女朋友和儿子在这种公寓环境下生活。"

"He wanted better for us and vowed to change, and he did. We have been together for 13 years ... we are happy with the way things are now. I trust him 100%, and he trusts me as well."

"他希望我们过得更好，也发誓会做出改变，事实上他的确做到了。我们已经在一起13年，现在，我们生活得很开心。我百分百的信任他，他也很信任我。"

"If he had tried to hide it or it was a recurring³ thing, it wouldn't have turned out the same."

"如果他试图隐瞒出轨或一而再再而三的犯错，那我肯定不会原谅他。"

"I forgave my significant other after [he cheated]. He told me about it the morning after it happened. If he had tried to hide it or it was a recurring thing, it wouldn't have turned out the same. Sometimes, it works out. I'm very optimistic about our future together."

"另一半出轨后我还是原谅了他。出轨后的那天早上，他就将这件事告诉了我。如果他试图瞒着我，或者继续出轨，那我肯定不会原谅他。有时候，原谅也有助于事态的发展。我对我们的未来非常乐观！"

"I started putting effort into the counseling, and both of our walls came down."

"我开始配合夫妻咨询，渐渐地，我们放下了防备。"

"I found out my husband cheated. I wanted a divorce, he didn't. I agreed to go to counseling but also met with a divorce attorney. I don't know if it was the greatest or worst divorce attorney, but she made me realize I still loved him.

"我发现丈夫出轨了，我想离婚，但他不愿意。我同意配合夫妻治疗，但也请了离婚律师。我不知道该说她是最棒的还是最遭的离婚律师，因为她让我意识到我还爱他。"