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懂得听人讲话的人,都知道这9点
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  • 1. They use good body language

    1.他们使用好的肢体语言

    Make direct eye contact and put your torso and shoulders in his direction. Give him your undivided attention and focus to show that you’re invested in the dialogue.

    要有直接的眼神接触,身体正面和肩膀要面向对方,把全部注意力放在对方身上,让对方知道你聊天很投入。

    2. They watch for nonverbal cues2

    2.他们注意非言语的暗示

    Pay attention to the speaker’s expressions and body language. Nonverbal clues are just as important as verbal1 ones.

    你要注意说话人的表情和肢体语言,非言语的暗示和语言一样重要。

    3. They don’t interrupt

    3.他们不会打断别人

    Let your partner say what’s on his mind freely and finish his own sentences. If you really have something important to say or need some clarification on something, jot3 it down to ask the person when he pauses.

    让对方自由表达想法,说完他要说的,如果你真有什么重要的话需要说或者需要说明某件事,你就记下来,等对方停顿时询问。

    4. They resist the urge to offer solutions

    4.他们不会冲动地给出解决方法

    Being an active listener means you’re allowing your friend to get out his emotions in a healthy way, without trying to fix the problem. If he wants to hear your opinions, he’ll ask for them.

    做一个积极的倾听者意味着你要让朋友通过健康的方式释放情绪,而不是努力去解决问题。如果他们想要听听你的想法,他会直接说的。

    5. They ensure that questions don’t steer4 the conversation off topic

    5.他们确保问的问题不会跑题

    When you realize that a conversation has gone off-topic, steer it back to the original one.

    你意识到聊天跑题的时候,再转回到最初的话题上。

    6. They take notes

    6.他们做记录

    If you’re at work, jotting5 down some key information may help you remember what you discussed in a conversation. Even if you don’t look at the notes again, the act of writing them down can help you remember the information better.

    你工作的时候记下一些关键信息可能能帮你记住你们对话中讨论了什么。即使你不再看记录,记录的行为也能帮你更好地记忆信息。

    7. They show empathy

    7.他们表达同情

    By showing that you’re feeling what the speaker is feeling, you’re being an effective listener. This doesn’t mean, though, that you have to agree with everything he says. You can say something like “I see”, smile or nod to show you’re listening without taking sides.

    表现出你理解对方的感受你就能成为一个有效的倾听者,但这并不意味着你需要同意对方所有观点,你可以说“我明白了”这样的话、微笑或点头来表明你在听而且没有偏袒任何一方。

    8. They’re open-minded

    8.他们很开明

    Take in everything he’s saying. Turn off your inner voice and put aside your opinions and beliefs so you can hear what’s being spoken to you.

    你要听对方说的每句话,不要在心里做出什么评价,把自己的想法和信仰放一边,你就能听到对方说的话了。

    9. They think before they speak

    9.他们说话之前会思考

    After the speaker is done, take a few seconds to come up with a response, if any. Consider if you can offer input6 that’s valuable or if you should just ask follow-up questions.

    对方说完话之后,需要给出回应时你需要几秒钟时间想想怎么回答。你要想想是否能给出有价值的信息,或者是否该只是继续问问题。

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     单词标签: verbal  cues  jot  steer  jotting  input 


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    1 verbal [ˈvɜ:bl] mi9wJ   第6级
    adj.口头的,用言辞的,用文字的,动词的
    参考例句:
    • Verbal statements are no guarantee. 口说无凭。
    • I delivered a verbal protest against their brutal acts. 我对他们的暴行提出口头抗议。
    2 cues [kju:z] 28810eca13a014aa7828d599b95bdc31   第6级
    n.尾白( cue的名词复数 );提示;暗示;(台球等的)球杆v.向…发出指示信号( cue的第三人称单数 )
    参考例句:
    • Without him they forgot their cues and garbled their lines. 一旦没有了他,她们就忘掉了她们的结尾语,或者弄错了台词。 来自辞典例句
    • She does not tiptoe through life taking cues from others. 她从来不依葫芦画瓢小心翼翼地生活。 来自互联网
    3 jot [dʒɒt] X3Cx3   第8级
    n.少量;vi.草草记下;vt.匆匆写下
    参考例句:
    • I'll jot down their address before I forget it. 我得赶快把他们的地址写下来,免得忘了。
    • There is not a jot of evidence to say it does them any good. 没有丝毫的证据显示这对他们有任何好处。
    4 steer [stɪə(r)] 5u5w3   第7级
    vt.驾驶,为…操舵;引导;vi.驾驶
    参考例句:
    • If you push the car, I'll steer it. 如果你来推车,我就来驾车。
    • It's no use trying to steer the boy into a course of action that suits you. 想说服这孩子按你的方式行事是徒劳的。
    5 jotting ['dʒɒtɪŋ] 7d3705384e72d411ab2c0155b5810b56   第8级
    n.简短的笔记,略记v.匆忙记下( jot的现在分词 );草草记下,匆匆记下
    参考例句:
    • All the time I was talking he was jotting down. 每次我在讲话时,他就会记录下来。 来自互联网
    • The student considers jotting down the number of the businessman's American Express card. 这论理学生打算快迅速地记录下来下这位商贾的美国运通卡的金额。 来自互联网
    6 input [ˈɪnpʊt] X6lxm   第7级
    n.输入(物);投入;vt.把(数据等)输入计算机
    参考例句:
    • I will forever be grateful for his considerable input. 我将永远感激他的大量投入。
    • All this information had to be input onto the computer. 所有这些信息都必须输入计算机。

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