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与人打交道,最怕没有底线
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  • The worst thing you can encounter when you interact with people is your own lack of a base line.

    人际交往中最不能做的第一件事,就是没有底线。

    No matter who you are interacting with, be it your family, your friend or strangers, you should know:

    无论你是和亲人、朋友还是陌生人打交道,你都应该明白:

    1. You have your own boundaries which others have no right to pass unless you authorize1 them to.

    你有自己的权力边界,这是别人不能够侵犯的。

    2. What you do is your own business. And you are the one who decides how to do them.

    你的事就是你的事,它们的最终决定权在你。

    3. What others do is their own business. If you don't want to help, you have the right not to.

    别人的事就是别人的事,如果你不想帮忙,那你就可以不帮忙。

    There is no need in maintaining all those pointless relationships and making yourself miserable2.

    你没有必要委屈自己去维护太多无意义的关系。

    You don't need to please everyone.

    你没有必要去讨好所有人。

    Your energy is limited.

    一个人的精力是有限的。

    And it's impossible to get along with everyone.

    一个人也不可能和所有人都保持融洽。

    This is life. It may not be the life that we imagine our lives should be like. But it's the true life that we have to live.

    这就是人生,它可能不是大多数人想象中的那个“应该的人生”,它是那个“现实的人生”。

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    1 authorize [ˈɔ:θəraɪz] CO1yV   第9级
    vt.授权,委任;批准,认可
    参考例句:
    • He said that he needed to get his supervisor to authorize my refund. 他说必须让主管人员批准我的退款。
    • Only the President could authorize the use of the atomic bomb. 只有总统才能授权使用原子弹。
    2 miserable [ˈmɪzrəbl] g18yk   第7级
    adj.悲惨的,痛苦的;可怜的,糟糕的
    参考例句:
    • It was miserable of you to make fun of him. 你取笑他,这是可耻的。
    • Her past life was miserable. 她过去的生活很苦。

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